10 Major Blunders By Men When Approaching Women
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1. Don’t wait to approach her until she’s alone. Even if she likes you, her friends will soon drag her away.
2. Don’t look at her for more than 3 seconds before you approach. Wait any longer than this, and you’ll either creep her out or talk yourself out of meeting her.
3. Don’t be apprehensive to approach her because she is surrounded by a group with some men in it. Usually, after you meet everyone you’ll learn that these guys are family, friends, or co-workers.
4. Never begin a conversation with a woman by saying sorry. Expressions such as “Excuse me ” “Pardon me ” and “I’m sorry, but” make you seem like a beggar.
5. Never come on to her or give her a generalized compliment. Use the much more engaging method of telling a compelling anecdote or asking an intriguing question. For example you might ask the group to think of names for a three-legged cat or a store that sells 70’s memorabilia. You might think it sounds dorky, but everyone delights in offering their opinion on a topic.
6. Never, ever purchase a cocktail for her. A real man doesn’t need to purchase a woman’s attention.
7. Under no circumstances should you touch or grab her immediately. If she touches you, retort, while smiling, “Watch it, hands off the goods.”
8. Don’t lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music’s too loud or she’s seated, simply speak up.
9. Avoid asking what her name is, what she does for work, or where she’s from. She’s sick of talking about the same boring stuff with all the guys that approach her.
10. Avoid placing all of your concentration on her when she’s in a group. If you win over her friends, you will also win her.
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