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Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?

And how does it feel that despite of all your hard work you’re still not getting the success you’re looking for?

If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.

I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.

You think everything will be going great with a woman and then she stops answering your calls.

Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.

You must have the courage in the way you approach.

At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.

(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)

Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.

… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

I would take a break and rest!

Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

… from TALKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

As a whole, there is a general dating fatigue. Having a discouraging results, an emotional ups and downs with regards to the hard work and effort that I make just to have a girl to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

The first time I got into this game I had force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I was a nerd, I admit that, and had pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in your interaction with women.