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There are basically 2 ways you can look at trying to beat alcoholism or drug addiction. The first one is to go it alone and try to do it yourself. Or, you can try and get professional help and look into the various forms of treatment available.

Now going it alone is not something I suggest you consider doing if at all possible. There is just too much at stake. Your life - or the life of a loved one.

I reckon the reason many of us alcoholics and drug addicts will look to overcome an addiction by ourselves is twofold. We feel a certain shame or embarrassment to admitting to an addiction, especially because it has a certain stigma attached to it, and so would rather just keep our problem to ourselves due to the fear of it ‘getting out.’

Don’t believe that for a second though. There is no shame in admitting to an addiction to alcohol or drugs. Tens of millions of people struggle with addiction. It is now medically regarded as a disease after all. Any more importantly - by taking ownership of your problem, you’ve taken the most important step to coming clean. Because without doing that, you’d just be living in denial - and then you’d have no chance.

I think the second major reason people try and avoid getting professional help for treating an addiction is the cost factor and the thought that it is simply too expensive. Sure there are expensive forms of treatment that you have no doubt read about - but there are also other very affordable forms, that almost anyone, no matter what your financial position, can benefit from.

If you had cancer, would you try and beat that by yourself? And there will be some of you, I know, who have read stories of people who have done exactly that, but why make it harder for yourself if there are people out there ready and willing to help you?

I certainly reckon that getting into a treatment program should always be your first priority. You may need to look into the ‘where and how’s ‘ exactly - but there should certainly be nothing to stop you if you decide that’s what you want to do. I know it made all the difference in helping me get my life back on track.

Going to treatment helps you realise that you’re not alone. There are other people going through exactly the same things you are. And so you suddenly don’t feel so lonely and isolated anymore. Yes - treatment is only the beginning of the road - but it gives you the best possible start towards building a new life for yourself.