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Warning signs of a breakup are often right under out noses yet we fail to see them and are totally shattered when a breakup finally occurs. Would you know what to look for? The following is a list of the top 9 signs that something is wrong and following is just what you can do about it!

The 9 red hot signs that your relationship may be in trouble are:

1. Has your partner started working strange hours that are completely out of character and you cannot reasonably justify?

2. Is there a change in the way the do things for you? have the become forgetful of the things they had promised to do or of keeping arrangements they had made with you?

3. Have they missed a special date, anniversary or birthday. (Definitely one of the most telling warning signs of a break up if they have usually always remembered and been most attentive)

4. Do they seem uncommunicative, distracted or sulky? Do you suddenly find that it is hard to have a meaningful conversation?

5. (Also one of the most telling warning signs of a break up ) Have the levels of affection and openness in how they show affection changed? Are you getting less hugs and kisses? Have they stopped holding your hand in public?

6. Does your partner take an interest in your plans and what you are doing or have they stopped showing they are interested in what matters to you?

7. Do you feel you can no longer trust your partner to tell the truth? Have they started telling lies or bending the facts, even over things that would have been a non issue before?

8. Have they become secretive about their email, phone calls or text messages?

9. Outside of the normal misunderstandings that are healthy in a relationship, do you find yourself disagreeing with your partner more and more?

Although one or two of these changes alone may not mean your relationship has a problem, three or more certainly indicate that something is definitely wrong. What do you do once you realise this and want to take steps to save your relationship?

Once you know something is wrong you can take action to fix it if that is what you really want. The highly successful relationships program known as the Magic of Making Up Program can tell you exactly what you must do, to make things right.